What research on family meals, emotions and conversation says, from Harvard, Yale, UCLA and others, and how it shapes the Kalmdix method.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 4 min read
Researchers at Harvard recorded family mealtimes and found dinner talk full of rare words, stories and explanations. What it means for parents and for Kalmdix.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
Serve and return, from the Center on the Developing Child at Harvard: the back-and-forth that builds young brains, its five steps, and what it means at dinner.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
RULER, from the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, teaches children to recognise, understand, label, express and regulate emotions. What it means at home.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
Emotion coaching, from John Gottman's research, turns children's big feelings into moments of connection. The five steps, the evidence, and how to use them.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
Psychologist Barbara Fiese spent decades studying family routines, rituals and mealtimes. What her research found, and how to make dinner a ritual that matters.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
UCLA researchers filmed the daily lives of 32 families and studied how they tell stories at dinner. What they found, and how to bring stories to your table.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
Max Planck researchers in Berlin found that the atmosphere, the TV and even the length of family meals matter for what children eat. Here is what to change.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
Cambridge research by Claire Hughes links how parents talk about thoughts and feelings to children's understanding of other people. What to try at home.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
Mentalizing, seeing behaviour in terms of thoughts and feelings, is central to Peter Fonagy's work at Anna Freud and UCL. What it means for everyday parenting.
October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read
Researchers at Università Cattolica in Milan see the family as a bond between generations built on trust and hope. What it means for family time with kids.