The research behind Kalmdix

What research on family meals, emotions and conversation says, from Harvard, Yale, UCLA and others, and how it shapes the Kalmdix method.

Family dinner conversation and children's vocabulary: what the Harvard research found

October 13, 2026 · The research · 4 min read

Researchers at Harvard recorded family mealtimes and found dinner talk full of rare words, stories and explanations. What it means for parents and for Kalmdix.

Serve and return: the Harvard idea behind every good conversation with a child

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

Serve and return, from the Center on the Developing Child at Harvard: the back-and-forth that builds young brains, its five steps, and what it means at dinner.

The RULER approach: what Yale's emotional intelligence research means for families

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

RULER, from the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, teaches children to recognise, understand, label, express and regulate emotions. What it means at home.

Emotion coaching: John Gottman's five steps, explained for family life

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

Emotion coaching, from John Gottman's research, turns children's big feelings into moments of connection. The five steps, the evidence, and how to use them.

Family routines and rituals: what Barbara Fiese's research says about family meals

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

Psychologist Barbara Fiese spent decades studying family routines, rituals and mealtimes. What her research found, and how to make dinner a ritual that matters.

Storytelling at dinner: what UCLA learned from filming everyday family life

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

UCLA researchers filmed the daily lives of 32 families and studied how they tell stories at dinner. What they found, and how to bring stories to your table.

How you eat together matters as much as how often: the Max Planck research on family meals

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

Max Planck researchers in Berlin found that the atmosphere, the TV and even the length of family meals matter for what children eat. Here is what to change.

Talking about thoughts and feelings: what Cambridge research says about children's social understanding

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

Cambridge research by Claire Hughes links how parents talk about thoughts and feelings to children's understanding of other people. What to try at home.

Mentalizing: the idea from Anna Freud and UCL that helps parents read between the lines

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

Mentalizing, seeing behaviour in terms of thoughts and feelings, is central to Peter Fonagy's work at Anna Freud and UCL. What it means for everyday parenting.

Family bonds across generations: what the Milan research on family relationships teaches us

October 13, 2026 · The research · 3 min read

Researchers at Università Cattolica in Milan see the family as a bond between generations built on trust and hope. What it means for family time with kids.

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